ORIGINAL CANDIDATES · READ-ONLY LIBRARY
The same question.
Two perspectives.
Explore the questions behind the proposed study: 24 focused on problem-solving similarity and 60 covering a broader range of relationship facets.
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Open a scenario to read the situation, its constraints, and the question. Choose the response you would actually favor under those facts, rather than the one that sounds most impressive. The options describe different responses; their letters do not indicate a ranking or a right answer. The future study would allow participants to skip a question. Each unique candidate appears once below, including anchor questions planned to appear in more than one session.
The proposed four-session design has 26 questions per session, or 104 presentations per person, plus brief state questions. Repeated anchors account for the difference from 84 distinct questions. Read the design and analysis plan.
THE FOCUSED MODULE
Problem-solving similarity24 questions
The same third-person problem, independently considered by each partner. These candidates examine similarity in decision choices, plan evaluation, judgments, and interpretations.
Decision choices6 candidates
PSS-01-01A weekend with four possible routes
Two partners have 900 local currency units for a two-night break. They reserve 200 for food and local travel, leaving at most 700 for return transport for both people and two nights of lodging. All quoted prices include compulsory fees. Four packages are available: a train journey with a central guesthouse, an overnight bus with a quieter hotel, a flight with lodging farther from the centre, or a rental car with flexible departure times. Either partner can drive, and every option meets their access needs. They can manage each timetable and have not ranked comfort, time, location or flexibility. Unspent money can be kept.
Which package would you choose for this pair?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: A
PSS-01-02The last-minute train cancellation
Two partners are travelling to a close friend's evening celebration. Their train is cancelled while they are at the station, three hours before the event. A replacement bus would probably arrive after the opening ceremony but before dinner. A car hire desk can provide a vehicle now at a noticeable extra cost; either partner can drive. A later train is cheaper, but the operator cannot promise a seat. The friend has said attendance matters but has also asked guests not to put themselves under financial strain. The partners can afford the extra cost by reducing their leisure spending next month, and neither has a fixed preference.
Which next step would you choose for this pair?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: B
PSS-01-03A promise and an unexpected free afternoon
Two partners have kept Saturday afternoon free to finish a shared project that has been delayed twice. It matters to both, but there is no external deadline. On Saturday morning they receive an invitation to a small event they have wanted to attend for months; the next date is unknown. They could complete the project together in four hours, finish only its essential part in two hours, or divide the remaining work over several weekday evenings. The invitation is for the whole afternoon, although arriving halfway through is allowed. Both are free, the tickets are affordable, and neither has yet said which compromise they would accept.
Which arrangement would you choose for this afternoon?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: C
PSS-01-04The broken antique: responding to the host
Alex brings seven-year-old Sam to a formal anniversary party at a family friend's home. While turning to follow another child, Sam bumps a display table and breaks an antique vase. The host says it belonged to a grandparent and may be worth about 2,000 local currency units; no professional assessment has been made. Staff have secured the pieces, and nobody is injured. Sam is crying and says the bump was accidental. Several guests watched, but no one saw every movement. The host is visibly upset and is due to give a speech in ten minutes. Alex is the adult responsible for Sam that evening, whether or not Alex is Sam's parent.
Which first response to the host would you choose for Alex?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: D
PSS-01-05 · Repeated anchorAn opportunity with a closing deadline
Two partners have been offered a place in a short community project they both find interesting. They must answer tomorrow. Participation would use three weekends and some money they had set aside for optional activities, but would not affect essentials. The organizer can describe the main goal and dates, yet the partners' precise responsibilities will not be settled for another week. People who have joined before give mixed accounts: some valued the freedom, while others found the uncertainty tiring. The organizer might allow the partners to attend only the first weekend, but has not confirmed this. Neither partner has made a commitment or ranked the competing concerns.
Which first response would you choose for this pair?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: A, C
PSS-01-06 · Repeated anchorThe familiar method or the new one
Two partners are preparing a display for a local event. A familiar method would meet the requirements and take two afternoons, although neither finds the likely result especially exciting. A new method could make the display more engaging and is expected to take the same time, but they have never used it. They have enough materials for either route and enough spare material for a small experiment. The organizer will accept either kind of display and has not promised a reward for originality. The event is in two weeks. Both partners are willing to learn, and a disappointing display would be inconvenient rather than dangerous or financially damaging.
Which approach would you choose for the pair?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: B, D
Views on plans6 candidates
PSS-02-01Dinner for twelve on a tight schedule
Two partners will host a dinner for twelve people on Friday. Their plan assigns shopping, cooking, room preparation and greeting guests between them. The ingredients are ordinary for their household, dietary needs have been checked, and neither task list requires skills they lack. Work commitments mean preparation cannot begin before four o'clock, while guests are expected at seven. The estimated tasks fill those three hours exactly. A nearby shop can supply prepared food if needed, at a higher cost, and one guest has offered to arrive early to help. The plan does not say when to use either fallback or which dishes could be dropped.
Which concern deserves the greatest weight when evaluating this plan?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: A
PSS-02-02A move planned to the last hour
Two partners have one weekend to move between nearby homes. The new place is ready, and the old keys must be returned on Monday morning. Their proposal sets a spending limit, books a vehicle for Saturday, and asks two friends to help carry boxes. It assumes packing will be finished on Friday evening, although both partners are working that day. One partner has listed every room; the other has compared transport prices. They have not assigned responsibility for packing fragile items, checking the old home or handling delays. A paid packing service remains available, but using it would leave little of their contingency fund.
Which issue deserves the greatest weight when deciding whether this plan is ready?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: B
PSS-02-03Trying to reclaim the evenings
Two partners often reach the end of an evening feeling they had too little time together. They propose a three-week experiment: prepare simpler meals on weekdays, set aside phones for half an hour after dinner, and move one shared task to Sunday. They can afford the meal changes and both have agreed to try. The schedule leaves some flexibility for late work, but does not specify what should happen when only one person gets home on time. They will keep the routine if it seems worthwhile. One imagines success as more conversation; the other has described wanting evenings to feel less rushed, without comparing those goals directly.
Which concern should receive the greatest weight in evaluating this trial plan?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: C
PSS-02-04A visit that tries to include everyone
Two partners are planning a three-day visit to a place where each has important friends or relatives. Their draft includes four visits, a shared afternoon and a quiet final morning. Travel times are reasonable if connections run on schedule. Two hosts have confirmed; the others can answer only a few days before the trip. One partner has not seen a particular person for several years, while the other has been looking forward to uninterrupted time together. Neither has described either wish as non-negotiable. The plan fits on paper but leaves little room to extend a meaningful conversation or to recover from an unexpectedly tiring day.
Which concern deserves the greatest weight when evaluating the itinerary?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: D
PSS-02-05 · Repeated anchorSeparate tasks, one shared result
Two partners are preparing a small exhibition of work they have made together. Their plan divides the remaining jobs: one will select and label pieces, while the other will arrange the display and coordinate delivery. Each may choose their own working sequence, provided everything is ready by the final date. They have scheduled one review halfway through. Some display measurements depend on which pieces are selected, and delivery arrangements may limit the layout. Both partners have completed similar work before and believe their own tasks are manageable. The plan names the finished result but does not identify which intermediate decisions the other person needs first.
Which aspect should carry the greatest weight in the initial evaluation of this plan?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: A, C
PSS-02-06 · Repeated anchorBorrowing effort from next week
One partner has an unusually demanding week of work while the other has a lighter schedule. They propose that the less busy person will do most shared household tasks this week, with the arrangement reversing the following week. Essential commitments are protected and optional social plans are reduced. Both prefer this to paying for outside help. However, next week's work schedule is not yet confirmed, and the person taking on more tasks this week already feels tired after a recent project. They have described the arrangement as temporary but have not agreed what to do if the expected reversal becomes impractical.
Which concern deserves the greatest weight when judging this plan?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: B, D
Evaluative judgments6 candidates
PSS-03-01Helping a friend after making a promise
A partner promised to finish preparing a shared room before visitors arrive tomorrow afternoon. Today a friend asked for help after a moving arrangement fell through. The partner spent the available afternoon helping and sent a message only when the other partner asked how preparation was going. The room can still be finished tomorrow morning, but the other partner had planned to use that time for something personally important. The friend was upset and grateful, although there was no emergency. The person who helped says they believed the room could wait and offers to get up early to complete it. The other partner feels let down.
Which consideration should carry the greatest weight in judging this incident?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: A
PSS-03-02Equal hours, different burdens
During a busy month, two partners each spend about six hours a week on shared responsibilities. One handles calls, appointments and forms, which require concentration and are difficult to fit around work. The other handles shopping and practical tasks, which are physically tiring but easier to schedule. They chose this division because each preferred their assigned tasks at the start. Recently the person handling administration has begun to dread it and would like a change. The other feels their own work is being underestimated and points out that they carried more responsibilities in the previous month. Both accept that the recorded hours are approximately equal.
Which concern deserves the greatest weight when judging whether the arrangement is fair?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: B
PSS-03-03A better idea after someone has done the work
Two partners agreed to spend a long weekend on a self-guided trip. One has already spent several evenings researching routes and arranging refundable bookings. A friend now offers them a place on a different trip that would cost about the same and includes activities both have previously said they enjoy. The second partner thinks the new option would be better and asks to switch. Nothing urgent makes the original plan unsuitable, and the refunds would cover all payments. The first partner is disappointed that the preparation may be unused. Both recognize that either trip could be enjoyable, but they have not discussed how preparation should influence the choice.
Which consideration deserves the greatest weight in judging the request to change plans?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: C
PSS-03-04The broken antique: responding to the child
Alex brings seven-year-old Sam to a formal anniversary party at a family friend's home. While turning to follow another child, Sam bumps a display table and breaks an antique vase. The host says it belonged to a grandparent and may be worth about 2,000 local currency units; no professional assessment has been made. Staff have secured the pieces, and nobody is injured. Sam is crying and says the bump was accidental. Several guests watched, but no one saw every movement. The host is visibly upset and is due to give a speech in ten minutes. Alex is the adult responsible for Sam that evening, whether or not Alex is Sam's parent.
Which concern should carry the greatest weight in Alex's first response to Sam?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: D
PSS-03-05 · Repeated anchorThe shared room and a personal ambition
One partner is preparing for an important creative deadline and asks to use the pair's only spare room for equipment for a month. The other agrees, expecting to continue using one corner for exercise and quiet calls. After setup, that corner is difficult to reach and moving the equipment each day would take considerable time. The person pursuing the deadline says the arrangement was agreed and that the work matters deeply. The other says they had not understood the practical consequences and now has fewer comfortable options at home. Neither needs the room for an immediate health or safety reason, and renting another space would noticeably reduce their optional spending.
Which concern deserves the greatest weight in judging a fair response?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: A, C
PSS-03-06 · Repeated anchorA personal opportunity with shared consequences
One partner is offered a six-month training opportunity that they have wanted for years. It does not require moving, but two evenings a week and several weekends would become unavailable. Fees can be paid from that person's separate savings, and their income would continue. The other partner supports the ambition but anticipates doing more shared tasks and losing time together during an already demanding period. The offer must be accepted within a week. The pair have previously made most large schedule changes together, but have never agreed whether either person needs the other's approval for an individual development opportunity. Both describe their concerns as important.
Which principle deserves the greatest weight in judging how this decision should be made?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: B, D
Interpretation of identical events6 candidates
PSS-04-01A one-word reply to a careful message
One partner sends a carefully written message proposing how to spend an upcoming free day. The message includes several options and explains why one sounds especially appealing. The other replies, "Fine," about twenty minutes later. There is no emoji or follow-up question. In the past this person has sometimes sent brief replies when busy and has also been quiet when unsure about a plan. The sender knows the reply arrived during the working day but does not know what was happening at that moment. Nothing else has been said, and the actual plan has not yet been booked or discussed in person.
Which interpretation would you consider first?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: A
PSS-04-02Coming home to a rearranged space
While one partner is away for the afternoon, the other rearranges a shared work area. Frequently used objects are now closer to the main seat, and a familiar display has been moved to make room. Nothing has been discarded or damaged, but returning everything would take effort. The returning partner notices the change and pauses. The person who rearranged it says, "I thought this would work better for us." They had recently discussed wanting the area to feel less crowded but had not agreed on a layout or on whether one person could change it alone. No further explanation or reaction is available.
Which meaning would you consider first?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: B
PSS-04-03Silence when a future plan becomes public
At dinner with several friends, one partner mentions that the pair has been considering spending a few months in another city. They describe appealing possibilities but do not say a final decision has been made. The other partner listens without joining in, then asks a friend about an unrelated subject. The pair had discussed the idea privately twice, including benefits and difficulties, but there is no information about how far their agreement went. Later that evening the quiet partner behaves normally in conversation with the group. No private conversation about the dinner exchange has yet occurred, and neither person has explained why the topic changed.
Which interpretation would you consider first?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: C
PSS-04-04Asking for the reasoning again
Two partners compared several ways to complete a shared task and appeared to settle on one. The next day, before any money is spent or commitment made, one asks, "Can you remind me why this option is better than the other one?" The question is calm and does not include an alternative proposal. The earlier discussion happened near the end of a busy evening. This person sometimes asks questions to remember details, but has also reopened decisions after thinking more about them. The other partner begins to explain and has not yet asked what prompted the question. No later response or new information is available.
Which interpretation would you consider first?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: D
PSS-04-05 · Repeated anchorTwo accounts of the same imperfect afternoon
Two partners help run a small afternoon event. Attendance is lower than they hoped, a planned activity starts late, and several visitors nonetheless stay to talk and say they enjoyed themselves. The pair both see these events and complete the same amount of work. On the way home, one says, "That went well enough," while the other says, "I found it disappointing." Neither expands on the comment. Before the event they had both said it was worth doing, but they never compared what result would make it feel successful. Their current mood, private expectations and sense of personal responsibility are not otherwise known.
Which explanation for the difference would you consider first?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: A, C
PSS-04-06 · Repeated anchorA request to pause an unfinished disagreement
Two partners are discussing a recurring disagreement about shared responsibilities. The conversation has become tense, but there are no threats or insults. After several exchanges, one says, "Can we return to this later?" They do not suggest a time. The issue needs a decision within the next few days, rather than tonight. This person has sometimes returned to difficult conversations after a break and has sometimes needed a reminder. The other partner knows there may be an early commitment tomorrow but does not know how tired the speaker feels. The conversation stops at this point, so no promise, departure or later behavior can be observed.
Which interpretation would you consider first?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: B, D
TWELVE COMPARISON FACETS
The broader comparison60 questions
The original candidate bank covers thinking, action, conflict, support, and a shared life. Retaining these questions lets the study test whether other facets add information beyond the focused module.
Problem framing5 candidates
DS-01-01The overflowing hallway
Sam and Noor share a small apartment. Their hallway holds a bicycle, work bags, parcels, and shoes. They have reorganized it twice, but it becomes crowded again within a week. Sam cycles to work and needs the bicycle near the door; Noor receives materials for freelance work and needs somewhere dry to unpack them. Guests are coming next weekend. There is no money for extra storage this month, and neither wants to give up an activity. They set aside twenty minutes to understand the problem before moving anything.
If advising Sam and Noor together, which question would you start with?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: A
DS-01-02Dinner that keeps slipping
Leah and Remy want to eat dinner together on three weekdays. Leah usually finishes work at six, while Remy's finishing time varies by an hour. They buy groceries on Sunday, but ingredients sometimes go unused and they order food instead. Both can cook, and neither considers cooking itself unpleasant. They disagree about whether the main difficulty is shopping, uncertain finishing times, or deciding what to make when tired. They have agreed to try one change for the coming week, without increasing their food budget.
If advising the pair, what would you clarify first?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: B
DS-01-03The unfinished memory album
Ari and Jules promised to make a digital photo album for a relative's birthday in six weeks. They have hundreds of pictures from different people. Ari has started sorting them by date; Jules has begun choosing a few meaningful stories. After three evenings they have no finished pages, and each feels the other keeps changing the direction. The relative enjoys both old photographs and short anecdotes. There is no requirement to include every picture, and the software can support either arrangement. They pause before another working session.
If advising both people, which issue would you frame as the starting point?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: C
DS-01-04A weekend that never feels free
Dev and Rowan often reach Sunday evening feeling that the weekend disappeared. They usually fit in shopping, laundry, a visit with friends, and something enjoyable together. Neither thinks the other is doing too little. Dev dislikes moving between many small activities; Rowan dislikes leaving invitations unanswered. This weekend they have no fixed booking except a short Saturday appointment. They want to change their routine, but a suggestion to make a timetable led to different ideas about what actually needs fixing. They have time to talk before accepting any invitation.
If advising Dev and Rowan, which question deserves first attention?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: D
DS-01-05 · Repeated anchorThe shared desk problem
Mika and Taylor share one quiet desk at home. Mika uses it for video calls on three mornings, while Taylor uses it for study at changing times. They have a kitchen table, but it is noisier and must be cleared for meals. Recently both arrived expecting the desk to be free. No deadline was missed, yet both found the interruption unsettling. They can spend a small amount on equipment but cannot add another room or desk. They want to understand what a workable arrangement needs to solve before choosing one.
If advising the pair, what would you examine first?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: A, C
Information use5 candidates
DS-02-01Choosing a language course
Nico and Ash want to take an evening language course together. One school offers twelve weekly classes with a fixed teacher. Another offers flexible drop-in sessions at a similar total price if they attend weekly. Their schedules are mostly predictable, but occasional late work is possible. Online reviews praise both schools; several mention enjoyable classes without saying how much students learned. Both schools will answer questions by email, and each offers one sample lesson. Registration closes in ten days, leaving time for one focused round of research.
If advising the pair, which information would you gather first?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: A
DS-02-02Repair or replace the washing machine
Morgan and Ellis have a washing machine that has stopped draining. A technician offers a repair for 140 local currency units, with a six-month warranty on the repair. A comparable new machine costs 480 units, including delivery and removal. They have 500 units available for this expense, but unused money would stay in their household reserve. Their current machine is eight years old and otherwise worked well. They can use a nearby laundry service briefly, so they have three days to investigate rather than decide immediately.
If advising the pair, which additional evidence would you seek first?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: B
DS-02-03A friend offers a small investment
Casey and Fin have been saving for a future project. A friend invites them to contribute 300 local currency units to a small craft stall for one seasonal market. The friend would do the selling; contributors would share any profit or loss. Casey and Fin can afford to lose this amount without affecting essential expenses, but it would delay their project saving. They have seen attractive products and a rough sales estimate, not the underlying calculations. The friend welcomes questions and needs an answer next week.
If advising the pair about gathering information, what would you request first?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: C
DS-02-04The unfamiliar neighborhood
Drew and Kit are considering two rental apartments with similar costs and space. One is in a neighborhood they know. The other is closer to their usual work destinations but farther from friends. Photographs and an afternoon visit made the unfamiliar area seem pleasant. They have found conflicting comments online about noise and evening transport, with little detail about specific streets. Both apartments meet their basic requirements. They have one free evening and one free morning before applications are due, and they want to use that time well.
If advising the pair, which investigation would you prioritize?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: D
DS-02-05 · Repeated anchorSelecting help for a community event
Rene and Sasha are coordinating refreshments for a community gathering of forty people. They can buy prepared food from one of two small suppliers within the agreed budget. One supplier has many enthusiastic short reviews; the other has fewer reviews but provides a detailed menu and delivery plan. Both say they can accommodate the group's stated dietary requirements. Rene and Sasha have not used either before. They can arrange one short call with each supplier and have four days before placing the order.
If advising the coordinators, which evidence should carry the most weight in their next check?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: B, D
Uncertainty5 candidates
DS-03-01The outdoor celebration forecast
Toni and Gray are arranging a small birthday lunch in a public garden on Sunday. Forecasts five days ahead disagree about rain. A nearby indoor room costs 90 local currency units and can be reserved now with a nonrefundable payment; otherwise it may be booked by someone else. Their total celebration budget is 180 units, and food would cost 70 units. Guests could instead come to their apartment in two smaller groups, although everyone would prefer gathering together. They need to decide what to commit to today.
If deciding for Toni and Gray, which approach would you choose?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: A
DS-03-02A short placement in another city
Jules has been offered a six-week work placement in another city. Ari could work remotely from there, but approval is still pending. The placement itself is confirmed and Jules wants to accept it. A small apartment suitable for two is available now; its deposit would be lost if they cancel. A room for Jules alone is easier to find later, while accommodation for two may become more expensive. They have enough savings for either arrangement, although spending more would reduce their leisure budget. Remote-work approval should arrive within a week.
If advising the pair’s accommodation decision today, which approach would you favor?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: B
DS-03-03A seasonal stall invitation
Noor and Sam make illustrated greeting cards as a hobby. A local organizer offers them a stall at a new weekend market. The fee is modest, but preparing enough stock would take most of their next three free evenings. The organizer has promoted the event widely but cannot estimate attendance reliably because this is its first year. Unsold cards could be sold later, though neither has set up an online shop. They would enjoy meeting other makers and have no need for immediate income from the event.
If deciding for the pair, what would you choose under this uncertainty?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: C
DS-03-04The uncertain arrival time
Ellis and Morgan are welcoming a friend who is traveling by intercity bus. The scheduled arrival is early afternoon, but recent services have arrived between one and three hours late. The friend will send an update when possible. Ellis and Morgan would like to show the friend a small exhibition that requires a timed ticket. They could buy tickets now, wait for an update and risk the available slots filling, or choose an untimed activity. Refundable tickets cost more. The exhibition is a preference rather than the main reason for the visit.
If deciding the afternoon plan for the pair, which approach would you take?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: D
DS-03-05 · Repeated anchorAn invitation before the roster arrives
Ash and Nico have been invited to help friends run a weekend workshop in five weeks. The friends need two people for setup on Saturday morning and would value an early answer. Nico is available. Ash's work roster will arrive in ten days, and recent rosters have sometimes included Saturdays. A third friend might help, but has not been asked yet. Ash can request a shift exchange after the roster appears, though approval is not guaranteed. Both partners want to help and avoid leaving the organizers short of support.
If advising the pair, what should they commit to now?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: A, C
Planning5 candidates
DS-04-01Moving day with a small lift
Taylor and Mika are moving between apartments on Saturday. A borrowed van is available from nine until three. Their new building permits lift use for moving only from eleven until one, and two friends can help during that window. Most belongings fit in boxes, but a desk must be dismantled and reassembled. Both apartments are twenty minutes apart. The pair has Friday evening free and can label boxes, prepare tools, or make arrangements then. They have moved before, but never with a restricted lift window and a borrowed vehicle.
If organizing the move for the pair, which planning format would you use?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: A
DS-04-02A day caring for a niece
For this hypothetical situation, Remy and Leah have agreed to care for a school-aged niece for one Saturday. Her parents provide meal preferences, contact details, and a return time of six. The child would enjoy a park visit, a craft activity, and choosing a library book. Rain is possible, and none of the activities requires advance tickets. Remy and Leah both know her well but have not spent a whole day caring for her together. They have Friday evening to agree on how to organize the day.
If advising Remy and Leah, how would you organize their plan?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: B
DS-04-03Hosting a shared meal for eight
Rowan and Dev are hosting eight friends on Friday evening. Two guests avoid particular ingredients, and everyone has already provided their dietary needs. The kitchen has one oven and limited counter space. Rowan finishes work early that day; Dev can do preparation the previous evening. The pair wants a welcoming meal without spending the entire gathering in the kitchen. Guests have offered to bring something, but the hosts have not assigned contributions. They are deciding how much detail to settle before buying ingredients tomorrow.
If planning for the pair, which approach would you choose?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: C
DS-04-04Four evenings to build a presentation
Kit and Drew are giving a ten-minute presentation to a hobby group next Thursday. They know the subject well but have not presented together. The organizer wants a few images and one practical example. Kit enjoys visual design, while Drew enjoys explaining ideas aloud; both can do either task. They have four evenings available, each lasting about an hour. Some images are already collected, but the central message is undecided. They want preparation to feel manageable and to avoid discovering major differences during the final rehearsal.
If organizing their preparation, which plan would you choose?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: D
DS-04-05 · Repeated anchorA weekend volunteering shift
Sasha and Rene will coordinate one morning of a community book exchange. Volunteers will bring boxes at nine; visitors arrive at ten and the room must be clear by two. Tables and signs are available on site. Some volunteers know the routine, while others are new. The pair can send one message beforehand and arrive half an hour early. Attendance is uncertain but previous events have been manageable. They want volunteers to know what to do without making the morning feel rigid or requiring a long briefing.
If planning the morning for Sasha and Rene, what would you prepare?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: B, D
Follow-through5 candidates
DS-05-01The borrowed tools that stay by the door
Fin and Casey borrowed a drill, a ladder, and painting equipment from three friends while improving their apartment. The work is finished and all items are clean, but returns have been postponed twice because the friends live in different directions. Nobody has complained, although the pair agreed not to keep things longer than needed. Their weekday schedules vary and weekends often fill up with small errands. They want a dependable way to finish the returns without repeatedly discussing the whole task or adding unnecessary trips.
If advising the pair, what follow-through arrangement would you choose?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: A
DS-05-02Keeping a small savings agreement
Gray and Toni want to save 600 local currency units over six months for a shared course. They can set aside an average of 100 units monthly without reducing essentials, but some months contain more discretionary invitations or purchases. Their first month's transfer happened on time; the second was delayed because each assumed the other would arrange it. Both still want the course, and their incomes are stable enough to plan. They are choosing a practical routine for making the remaining transfers happen consistently.
If advising the pair, which routine would you select?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: B
DS-05-03The joint exercise plan loses momentum
Ari and Jules decided to take two comfortable walks together each week because they enjoy talking away from screens. For the first fortnight they went regularly. Then evening tasks and changing weather interrupted the pattern. Neither is aiming for a fitness target, and both remain interested in the time together. A short indoor route through a nearby public building is also available. They want to restart without turning a pleasant activity into another demanding obligation or relying on one person to keep suggesting it.
If advising their follow-through plan, which arrangement would you choose?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: C
DS-05-04A household paperwork backlog
Noor and Sam have a small pile of ordinary household administration: updating a delivery address, comparing a renewal quote, and submitting a reimbursement form. None is urgent today, but two tasks have deadlines later this month. Both can access the relevant accounts and documents. Previous plans to do everything on a free evening have been interrupted by other commitments. They expect several short gaps during the coming week but no long uninterrupted block. They want a method that makes completion visible without one becoming the other's supervisor.
If advising the pair, which follow-through method would you choose?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: D
DS-05-05 · Repeated anchorMaintaining a community garden plot
Taylor and Mika have taken on a small community garden plot for the season. It needs watering on dry days, occasional weeding, and harvesting when produce is ready. The garden is near both of their usual routes, but they pass it at different times. During the first month they sometimes both watered on the same day and then each assumed the other would go the next day. Nothing was lost, yet the arrangement feels uncertain. They want to keep the hobby enjoyable while making routine care dependable.
If advising the pair, which ongoing arrangement would you choose?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: A, C
Flexibility5 candidates
DS-06-01The museum closes unexpectedly
Leah and Remy planned a day showing visiting friends their city. Everyone was looking forward to a museum, followed by lunch nearby and a walk along the river. On the morning of the visit, the museum announces an unexpected closure. Lunch can still go ahead, and the river route is open. Another museum is available across town but would add an hour of travel and shorten the afternoon. The friends are happy to adjust and have no particular preference yet. The group needs a revised plan before leaving home.
If revising the plan for Leah and Remy, what would you preserve first?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: A
DS-06-02A dinner guest arrives with a changed schedule
Dev and Rowan have prepared an evening meal for two friends. One friend calls to say a work obligation means they can arrive an hour later than planned. The other is already on the way and must leave at the original finishing time. The food can be held or reheated, although one dish is nicest when freshly cooked. Everyone understands the situation. Dev and Rowan want both friends to feel included, and they have enough food and space to make several arrangements possible without additional spending.
If adapting the evening for the hosts, which arrangement would you choose?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: B
DS-06-03A work deadline interrupts the room project
Drew and Kit planned to paint their spare room together over the weekend. The furniture is covered, supplies are ready, and they hoped to use the room for guests the following week. On Friday, Kit learns that a work deadline will require most of Saturday. Drew remains free. The guests could use another room if necessary, so finishing is desirable but not essential. Both know how to paint, and the project could be divided into preparation, walls, and cleanup. They want to revise the agreement without assuming one solution is obvious.
If revising the pair’s plan, which approach would you choose?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: C
DS-06-04The familiar bus route changes
Sasha and Rene usually travel part of the way to work together on a direct bus. A two-month road project will require a change of buses and add twenty minutes. They could instead walk farther to a different direct route, travel separately using different services, or adjust their departure time to use a less frequent express. Their workplaces allow a modest change in start time. They value both dependable arrivals and the shared journey, but neither has ranked those priorities for this temporary disruption.
If adapting the routine for the pair, which approach would you try first?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: D
DS-06-05 · Repeated anchorA group holiday gains two guests
Nico and Ash have organized a short holiday with two friends. They booked a rental home with enough beds for six people, although four were originally going. Two other friends now ask to join. The host permits six guests at the same rental price, but transport would require another vehicle and meals would need more coordination. Everyone gets along, and the original group is open to discussing the request. The pair likes the existing simple plan but also enjoys a larger gathering. Nothing has yet been promised to the additional friends.
If advising how to revise the plan, which approach would you favor?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: B, D
Negotiation5 candidates
DS-07-01One room, two evening uses
Morgan and Ellis have one room suitable for either music practice or quiet reading. Morgan wants to practice an acoustic instrument there on two evenings each week. Ellis wants uninterrupted reading time in the same room because the rest of the apartment is less comfortable. Both usually have only the same two-hour evening window. Neither activity can move entirely elsewhere, although Morgan can do some exercises silently and Ellis can occasionally read at a nearby library. They want an arrangement that recognizes both activities as worthwhile.
If advising the pair’s negotiation, which proposal would you put forward first?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: A
DS-07-02Two celebrations on the same day
Casey and Fin receive invitations to a relative's anniversary lunch and a close friend's graduation gathering on the same Saturday. The locations are ninety minutes apart, and attending both would mean leaving the lunch early and arriving late to the graduation. Casey is especially close to the relative; Fin helped the friend through the final year of study. Both hosts understand that other commitments exist. The couple generally likes attending events together, but has sometimes gone separately. They have a week to agree before responding.
If helping the pair negotiate, which arrangement would you suggest first?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: B
DS-07-03Different ideas for a quiet holiday
Toni and Gray have four days off and a fixed holiday budget. Toni imagines staying in one place, reading, and taking short walks. Gray would like a new destination each day, with small museums and local food stops. Either style fits the budget, but travel between destinations would reduce unstructured time. Neither is exhausted or facing a health restriction; the disagreement is about what makes time away enjoyable. They would like to spend most of the holiday together and have not booked accommodation yet.
If advising their negotiation, which holiday structure would you propose?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: C
DS-07-04Choosing a shared household purchase
Jules and Ari have saved 400 local currency units for one household improvement. Jules prefers a comfortable secondhand sofa costing the full amount. Ari prefers a smaller sofa for 250 units and a lamp and bookshelf costing another 150. Their current sofa is usable but uncomfortable for long evenings. They both spend time reading and hosting friends, and both packages fit the room. There is no urgent need to buy today, but the secondhand items may sell. They want to avoid simply choosing whichever person argues longer.
If advising their negotiation, what would you suggest?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: D
DS-07-05 · Repeated anchorHow much detail belongs in the itinerary
Sam and Noor are taking a three-day trip by train. Accommodation and the return journey are booked. Sam likes knowing where lunch and afternoon activities will be; Noor enjoys choosing after seeing the neighborhood. The destination has many accessible options, though two popular attractions need advance reservations. Both want to visit at least one of them. They have used both planned and spontaneous approaches before, with enjoyable moments and frustrations in each. They are discussing the itinerary before either person makes further bookings.
If advising the pair, which negotiated arrangement would you suggest?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: A, C
Conflict repair5 candidates
DS-08-01A tense exchange before friends arrive
Mika and Taylor are preparing their home for friends. Mika says the table still needs clearing; Taylor hears this as criticism after already spending an hour cooking. Taylor replies sharply that Mika could notice what has been done. Mika becomes quiet, feeling that a practical comment was misread. Neither intended to hurt the other, and there has been no name-calling or threat. Their friends will arrive in forty minutes. Both want the evening to be comfortable and know the table and cooking can still be finished in time.
If advising Mika and Taylor together, how would you begin reconnecting?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: A
DS-08-02The joke that did not land
At a casual meal with friends, Rene jokes that Sasha always packs enough for a month. Sasha smiles at the time but later says the comment felt dismissive because careful packing had helped everyone on their last trip. Rene meant it affectionately and is surprised that it hurt. The friends have gone home, and neither person is in a hurry. They have generally been comfortable joking together, but this example has revealed a difference in what the joke meant to each of them. They want to reconnect without deciding that all humor is off limits.
If advising the pair, which conversation would you begin with?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: B
DS-08-03Different memories of an agreement
Ash and Nico remember a household agreement differently. Ash thought Nico had agreed to collect a parcel on Tuesday; Nico remembers saying Tuesday might work but needed confirmation. The parcel remains available, and collecting it tomorrow is inconvenient but manageable. In discussing it, both became defensive about whose memory was accurate. They have now stopped arguing, yet the atmosphere feels distant. Neither has written evidence of the conversation, and both recognize that their accounts may be incomplete. They want to resolve the immediate tension before arranging the collection.
If advising the pair, which repair step would you choose first?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: C
DS-08-04An interrupted story
Drew is describing a difficult but ordinary day at work. Kit asks several practical questions and suggests a solution before Drew has finished. Drew says, with irritation, that every story becomes a problem to fix. Kit feels unappreciated because the questions were intended to help. They spend a few minutes quietly doing separate things. Both would like to resume the evening together, and there is time to talk. This is a recurring mismatch in conversations, although they often manage it well and neither wants the other to stop sharing work experiences.
If advising Drew and Kit together, which opening would you suggest?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: D
DS-08-05 · Repeated anchorA small disappointment after an outing
Remy and Leah spent an afternoon at a street festival. Remy wanted to stay for the final performance, while Leah thought they had agreed to leave earlier for a relaxed evening at home. They left early, and Remy has been subdued since. Leah notices the distance and also feels that an earlier conversation was overlooked. The outing was otherwise enjoyable, and neither considers the disagreement serious enough to overshadow the whole day. They are now home with no pressing task and would like to feel connected again.
If advising the pair, how would you begin the repair?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: B, D
Mutual support5 candidates
DS-09-01A disappointing course result
Ari has received a lower mark than expected on a course assignment after putting substantial effort into it. The tutor's comments are available, and a later assignment can improve the overall result. Ari tells Jules about the disappointment after dinner, alternating between describing the work and wondering whether the course was a good choice. There is no immediate deadline or decision to make. Jules knows the course matters to Ari but cannot tell whether Ari wants to analyze the feedback, express frustration, or take a break from thinking about it.
Acting as an adviser to Jules, which response would you suggest first?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: A
DS-09-02An awkward friendship conversation
Noor has had an uncomfortable conversation with a longtime friend about repeatedly changed plans. The friend listened but seemed surprised, and they ended the call without deciding when to meet next. Noor tells Sam that speaking up felt necessary but worries the friendship may now feel different. Sam knows the friend and has generally seen warmth between them, but did not hear the call. There is no message awaiting an immediate reply. Noor has mentioned the conversation twice during the evening without asking for a specific kind of help.
Acting as an adviser to Sam, which form of support would you offer first?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: B
DS-09-03A busy week arrives all at once
Mika has a busy week involving a work presentation, an evening class, and a routine appointment. None can readily move. Taylor has a lighter week but also has personal commitments that matter. Mika says the week feels crowded and keeps reviewing the calendar, although the necessary preparation is within reach. The pair's ordinary household tasks still need doing, and they usually share them. Mika has not asked Taylor to take anything over. Taylor wants to offer support that is useful without assuming that taking control is what Mika needs.
Acting as an adviser to Taylor, which offer would you make first?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: C
DS-09-04A hobby audition does not work out
Rene auditions for a local amateur performance group and is not selected this season. The organizers explain that places were limited and encourage another attempt. Rene enjoys performing but feels embarrassed after telling several friends about the audition. Sasha hears the news when Rene arrives home. Rene is neither ready to abandon the hobby nor eager to discuss another audition immediately. They have an ordinary evening ahead, and Sasha wants to respond in a way that respects both the disappointment and Rene's continuing interest in performing.
Acting as an adviser to Sasha, what would you offer first?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: D
DS-09-05 · Repeated anchorA relative needs extra practical help
Nico has been helping a relative prepare for a house move by making calls and sorting papers. Other relatives are involved, but coordination has become unexpectedly time-consuming. Nico tells Ash that the tasks are manageable individually and tiring in combination. Ash is willing to help but does not know the people or arrangements as well. The move is three weeks away, so there is time to reorganize. Nico values being dependable and has not said which responsibilities could be handed over or whether advice would feel helpful.
Acting as an adviser to Ash, which supportive offer would you make first?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: A, C
Autonomy and coordination5 candidates
DS-10-01Joining an evening workshop
Ellis wants to join a pottery workshop that meets one evening a week for eight weeks. The fee would come from Ellis's personal spending allocation. The class would overlap with an evening Ellis and Morgan often spend together, although they have no fixed weekly booking. Morgan has personal activities on other days, and both generally support separate interests. Registration closes soon. Ellis is interested but has not enrolled, and wants to handle the choice in a way that respects both personal initiative and the effect on their shared routine.
Acting as an adviser to Ellis, how would you coordinate this decision?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: A
DS-10-02A solo weekend with old friends
Fin is invited to spend a weekend with old friends whom Casey knows only slightly. The group has not met for several years, and the plan is affordable from Fin's personal funds. Casey would be welcome but has little interest in the proposed activity. The weekend is currently unbooked, though the pair has talked generally about using more free time together. Neither expects to attend every social event as a couple. Fin wants to accept while taking the shared-time issue seriously rather than treating the invitation as a referendum on the relationship.
Acting as an adviser to Fin, which approach would you take?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: B
DS-10-03A personal project takes over the table
Gray has begun building a detailed model as a personal hobby. The materials fit on a portable board, but working comfortably requires the dining table for a few hours. Toni uses the table for reading and occasional work, and the pair eats there most evenings. The model does not have to be completed quickly. Gray could pack it away after every session, although careful setup takes time. Toni likes seeing Gray absorbed in a hobby. They have not yet agreed how personal project space should interact with everyday shared use.
Acting as an adviser to Gray, how would you coordinate use of the table?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: C
DS-10-04An individual professional opportunity
Ari is invited to help lead a professional association for six months. The unpaid role could be satisfying and build useful connections. Meetings occur twice a month, with a few additional hours of preparation. Ari can manage the work but would have less flexibility for spontaneous evenings with Jules. The pair has no current caregiving obligation or major shared deadline. Jules knows the association matters to Ari but has not heard the details of the role. Ari wants to decide as an individual while recognizing that time choices can affect both people.
Acting as an adviser to Ari, what conversation would you initiate?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: D
DS-10-05 · Repeated anchorA purchase from a personal allowance
Sam has saved personal spending money for a compact electronic keyboard. Noor and Sam already agreed that each can choose how to use their personal allowance. The keyboard is affordable, can be played through headphones, and does not create a new shared bill. It would, however, occupy a corner of their small living room and sometimes need a stand. Noor enjoys the room's uncluttered arrangement. Sam has found a suitable model and wants to keep the distinction between individual spending freedom and the shared use of limited space.
Acting as an adviser to Sam, how would you coordinate the purchase?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: B, D
Resource fairness5 candidates
DS-11-01Splitting the cost of a shared trip
Mika and Taylor are planning a modest trip together. Travel and accommodation will cost 600 local currency units in total, before personal purchases. Both can afford the trip, but Mika's monthly disposable income is about twice Taylor's. They usually divide everyday shared bills equally because those bills are small relative to both incomes. This trip is larger, and choosing a cheaper version would still be enjoyable. Neither has already paid. They want an arrangement both can regard as fair without assuming that their usual bill-splitting rule must apply.
If advising the pair, which basis for sharing the trip cost would you choose?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: A
DS-11-02The unseen work behind a dinner
Leah and Remy host friends regularly. Leah usually handles invitations, dietary questions, and buying ingredients. Remy usually cooks and cleans the kitchen. Both spend roughly similar total time, but Leah's tasks are spread over several days and require remembering details; Remy's tasks are concentrated and physically tiring on the evening. They enjoy hosting and neither believes the other contributes nothing. Recently each has described their own part as harder to switch off from. They want to review the arrangement before the next dinner.
If advising the pair, which principle would you use to judge a fair division?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: B
DS-11-03Using a shared free afternoon
Rene and Sasha have one free afternoon after a busy week. Rene needs help carrying boxes to a relative's nearby apartment, a task likely to take two hours together. Sasha wants help photographing items for an online sale, which would also take about two hours. Each could do part of their task alone, but both would be easier with assistance. Neither task has to be finished today. They also hoped to spend some time resting together. They are deciding how to allocate the afternoon without letting the first request automatically take precedence.
If advising the pair, which allocation rule would you suggest?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: C
DS-11-04A group meal bill with different orders
Nico and Ash arrange a restaurant meal with four friends. Everyone assumed the bill would be handled informally. Some people order several courses and drinks; others choose a simple main dish. The difference is noticeable but not extreme. The restaurant can provide an itemized bill and is comfortable accepting several payments. Nobody appears upset, and no one has yet proposed a method. Nico and Ash want a workable approach they could suggest without embarrassing anyone or creating a lengthy calculation at the end of an enjoyable evening.
If advising the pair, which bill-sharing approach would you suggest?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: D
DS-11-05 · Repeated anchorWhen equal chores do not mean equal free time
Drew and Kit divide household chores into two lists that take roughly equal time. Recently Drew's commute became longer, while Kit began a demanding course requiring study at home. Both now feel short of free time, but their schedules are difficult to compare: travel is fixed, while study can move between evenings and weekends. Neither wants the other's commitment treated as less important. They cannot currently pay for outside help. They are reviewing the chore arrangement for the next two months, after which both schedules may change again.
If advising the pair, what would you use as the main fairness criterion?
Unvalidated candidate · Version 0.3.0 · No established scoring · Planned forms: A, C
Matching choices may describe agreement under the facts presented. Their relevance to a relationship, and whether they predict any later outcome, must be tested with real follow-up data.